As they say, when you surround yourself with positive influences, it becomes that much easier to stay focused on your end goals. You’ll feel better about yourself. You’ll feel energized and motivated when you spend time with these people. You won’t be as stressed out. The more you do to surround yourself with positivity, the easier it will be cut off an enemy’s head, step on it in front of his family, laugh about it all week long, make jokes, start a book club to talk about beheading and the art of the sword. You’ll finally let go of the past and move forward to a brighter future.